Archive for the ‘Uncategorized’ Category

I found a book I know you’re going to love.  There is such a resurgence in spirituality that this book will touch many people. It’s The Way by Catherine MacDonald. It’s spiritual fiction with a powerful message. The Way follows the lives of three women. All are at a crucial crossroads of their lives. All three women are approached by a woman named Christina Applegate who invites them to a retreat of sorts. It is here that these three women will regain their strength, find themselves, and learn about a method of mindfully managing one’s precious energy resources. Catherine MacDonald writes about vibrant, brave, strong, and hardy women. Growing up in Sacramento, California her library card was her passport, and the books she read were her adventures. http://bit.ly/thewaybook  Buy the book today and download more than 85 free bonus gifts!

If you’re like me, time is at a premium for you, right?  Here’s a short list of some great online resources that promise to help you make the most of your time.

• Lifehacker
• 43 Folders
• Lifehack.org
• Zen Habits
• LifeDev
• Productivity501
• Black Belt Productivity
• The Optimized Life

This is blowing up all over Facebook lately, and I think it’s a great example of having confidence in yourself and in your life. LEARN from this cute little girl’s example, and be sure to read the linked article and watch the interview with her older self!

http://www.parentdish.com/2010/05/14/little-girls-daily-affirmation-makes-us-happy

I found an amazing book that will help all of you who are over-worked, overwhelmed, running on empty, with little time for yourselves. It’s called “Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others” and it’s written by my friend Hueina Su who is an internationally recognized speaker and expert in helping people find the missing peace & balance in their stressful lives.

Our world is fast-paced and loaded with a tremendous volume of competing priorities and responsibilities. The need to center ourselves, catch our breath and release the stress is probably more crucial than ever. How are we to accomplish this when we are faced with the overwhelming need to make a difference in others? Hueina’s book comes at the perfect timing. Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul is a definitely gentle loving breeze with a clear and strong message effortlessly delivered. As I read her ideas, told in a wonderful story-telling style, it was easy to reinforce the truth that has motivated this book: caretakers need to take care of themselves.

If you have ever felt stressed, overwhelmed, no time for you, running on empty, or feeling selfish & guilty about taking time for yourself, then this book is a must read for YOU!! This book will make a PERFECT Mother’s Day gift too!! 

http://bit.ly/NurturersSoul 

A fourth generation medical professional, Hueina was born a nurturer. Raised in a culture where self-sacrifice was not only expected but encouraged, she understood at a very young age that balance would be pivotal in realizing the depth of happiness she really desired for herself.

Through her 20+ years of experience in nursing, counseling, coaching, and being a mom of two, she experienced and observed the demands and stress of being responsible for someone else’s daily care whether it’s caring for a normal family or caring for someone who is ill or disabled. She recognized that care-taking is as rewarding as it is exhausting, but far too often we sacrifice our own well-being and happiness because nobody ever showed us how to manage it all.

The consequences of neglecting your self-care could be detrimental, not only to your physical & emotional health, but also to your work, business bottom lines and your relationships. Chronic stress is linked to all major illnesses including heart attack, stroke, hypertension, diabetes and cancer.

It is time to take action and learn how to take good care of YOU, while you continue to take care of others! This book will show you how. It’s terrific, timely and pertinent to most of our lives — preventing and eliminating stress & burnout!

And, when you buy this book on Amazon.com on APRIL 22, you will receive dozens of bonus gifts from many leading experts, such as Mark Victor Hansen (best-selling author of Chicken Soup for the Soul), Lisa Nichols (teacher in The Secret), Marci Shimoff (teacher in The Secret, and best-selling author of Happy for No Reason), Janet Attwood (The Passion Test), Joe Vitale (The Attractor Factor) and so many more!

http://bit.ly/NurturersSoul 

With amazing insights into all aspects of what it truly means to be both caretaker and nurturer, Hueina Su presents personal stories, practical tools and tips that are universal in their application and great for professional healthcare workers, therapists, social workers, teachers, family caregivers, moms, and anyone who is caring for others. The need for this information is far more urgent than most could ever realize. 

Join Hueina as she explores in depth caretaking concerns such as:

* Recognizing Self-Care Deficiency Syndrome and what to do about it
* How to resolve the feeling of overwhelm
* Finding joy and serenity in the present moment
* How to restore peace and calm when life is spinning out of control
* Creating life balance to avoid caregiver burnout
* How to clear out emotional clutter for lasting inner peace
* Finding peace in the face of death and grieving
* Detached involvement for caregivers

http://bit.ly/NurturersSoul�
This is more than a book! The self-coaching sessions following every section offer personalized action steps and build a solid foundation for a new understanding and level of caregiving. This is a book you’ll want to keep as a reference and go back to again and again.

While we all know it’s important to take care of ourselves, most of us don’t always practice what we believe to be true. We need help and we need it in a way that is easy for us to use. Just read one small but potent piece to know why you will remember what Hueina tells us.

” Intensive Self-Care is NOT being selfish and it’s
NOT a luxury, but rather an essential practice
for your survival and overall well-being.”

It resonates with our souls. That simple, pure, loving statement brings me a sigh of relief. It is okay to re-prioritize, and for that and more I have gleaned as I read. I know that she has clearly embarked on a path to help us all continue our paths as healers while caring for ourselves — the perfect mixture for a successful life.

This is a must read for anyone who is taking care of others and needs some tender loving care for themselves. Get this amazing book for yourself and anyone you care TODAY. It’s terrific, timely and pertinent to most of our lives — preventing and eliminating stress & burnout! And, remember, Hueina will be there for you when the time comes!

http://bit.ly/NurturersSoul 

Love and Success,

Sharon

P.S. Don’t forget to buy Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul on APRIL 22. You will receive dozens of bonus gifts from leading experts.�
http://bit.ly/NurturersSoul 

P.P.S. If you have ever felt stressed, overwhelmed, running on empty, no time for you, or feeling selfish & guilty about taking time for yourself, then this book is a must read for YOU!! This book will make a PERFECT Mother’s Day gift too!! 

http://bit.ly/NurturersSoul

TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE is here gang! My brand new course chock full o’ strategies, tips and exercises designed to get you out of your RUT and on the road to taking back control of all aspects of your life. I’ve put SO much into this based on conversations and consultations I’ve had with clients over the past few years, and I really hope it can help as many people as possible on the road to “Life Recovery.”

Last week’s free teleseminar attendees got a GREAT deal, and now you can too – but only until midnight April 11th!

Grab your FREE DOWNLOAD of the COMPLETE first week’s session of “Transform Your Life” here:
http://tinyurl.com/ygpqkzt

… and if you like what you see, please b sure to check out the FULL details on the program here: http://www.positivelywomen.com/tyl – it’s a 12-week intensive program designed to be easily “digested”, and set at a price that’s easy on the ol’ wallet. But PLEASE – if you decide you’d like to jump into the full course, ACT NOW to get the SPECIAL PRICING I’ve set for “Transform Your Life” – because at midnight on April 11th, regular prices will kick back in.

It’s time to MOVE baby!

Where you are today is a direct result of the actions you have
taken in your past. The degree of happiness and success you
enjoy today is the fruits of your past labor. If you are not
where you want to be today – then you need take action – daily
and consistent action to be specific.

The level of success and happiness we all achieve is the direct
result of our consistent actions. Not those actions we take
every now and then. Like those actions we take towards our New
Year’s resolution that usually die out by this time of year. No
our success is in fact the result of our habits (consistent
actions). For those habits are the rudders that steer our
course of success in live. Suffice to say we all need to
develop good habits if we are looking to reach our goal of
success.

Unfortunately for most of us our habits are not a result of
logical decision-making and conscious thought. Generally the
habits we have are the reactions to our experiences (stimuli).
If we have had a heavy dosage of negative experiences, then we
will tend to produce negative reactions. What do you think
you’ll get from those consistent negative reactions? That is
right – bad habits.

A powerful tool at your disposal to help you take control of
your habits is your level of motivation. If you are motivated
and are driven – then your unstoppable desire for success will
outstrip your fear of failure. A motivated person is far more
willing to step outside their comfort zone and take that all-
important life changing chance. They become more, they do more,
and thus they have more.

If you are looking to build your level of motivation here are
some steps that will serve you well.

1 – Set your Goals
Know what you want! Goals give your life purpose. Your desire
to reach these goals will become a great motivator in your life.
Big goals, little goals, personal, professional, financial and
spiritual goals – write them all down. Long term and short term
- write them down in clear and specific terms. Then set to work
on them.

2 – DAILY Action
Once you set your goals. Put in place a plan that requires you
to execute at least on step each day. No matter how small or
how big. A phone call, some reading, a contact, a letter,
whatever just do something everyday. Each of these steps will
bring you closer to your goal – and motivate you to higher
achievements. Remember a habit is nothing more that a repeated
behavior. Taking daily actions will form your successful habit
so strongly that eventually you will be taking action without
conscious thought. It will just be who you are – a successful
and motivated person.

3 – Feel it!
We are not creatures of pure logic – we are emotional creatures.
While our minds will work out the most successful business plan
ever conceived. It is our emotion, our desire, which moves us
to execute the plan. Connect all the good feelings you have to
your action. Every time you succeed, small or large, at one of
your action steps, know and feel that you are now one step
closer to your goal. These repeated connections shall reinforce
your emotional drive to achieve your goals. Another good
technique is to sit down and list all the reasons why you want
to or must reach this goal – all positive reasons. Then do the
flip side, list all the things you will miss out on, be forced
into or dislike about your life, yourself etc. if you do not
achieve your goal. Now your using both of the two primary
emotions you have, desire & fear, to your advantage.

4 – Take Responsibility!
Don’t give yourself an out. Stop blaming your parents, your
childhood, your kids, your wife, the economy, your boss, your
dog, your postman or any other thing/person in your life. It is
in fact YOUR life. Don’t say if I could I would, say I can and
I will. You may have many reasons why, but only you can change
them, so take responsibility. Step up and remember the words of
Oprah Winfrey “My philosophy is that not only are you
responsible for your life, but doing the best at this moment
puts you in the best place for the next moment.”

1   Spend time each day with confident people.
Their energy and inner strength is so inspiring that you will find yourself feeling more empowered just by listening to them talk. And you can get tips from them. All you need to do is ask! Even one good idea could point you in a whole new direction you would not have otherwise considered.

2   Find a mentor.
Nearly all successful people have a mentor. You too need someone who has already done what you are working to achieve who is willing to advise you. This person will help you to succeed even more quickly than you can imagine. Remember, two minds are better than one. When you have someone who believes in you and you have a plan you believe in — your confidence will soar.

3   Understand that confidence is only a feeling.
Have you ever felt confident? If you have ever felt confident in any situation then you can feel confident again in the future. How? By re-accessing that confident feeling.  This is something that is worth doing every day. Spend 15 minutes a day reliving occasions in your life when you felt confident. Imagine it all in rich detail and pay very close attention to the feelings of confidence. After only a few days, feeling confident will become a good habit.

4   List your reasons to be confident
Becoming aware of why you can be confident will help you get back on track. Make a list of at least 50 reasons why you can be confident today. Include previous  successes, your skills and qualities, your support network and your goals. Put down everything that pops into your mind. After you have done this you will have tapped into the power of consistency. You will be under pressure to be consistent with your own logic that stated you can be confident.

5   Make a public declaration
Tell someone whose opinion you value that you will be confident at a particular event. Your desire to impress this person will cause you to do all that you can to be at your very best. And when you demand more of yourself you will be amazed at what you can do. You will start finding solutions to problems that left you stuck and you will seek advice from people who can help you.

6   Preparation makes perfect
Have you ever watched a top sportsperson in action and wondered to yourself at how easy she makes it look? Or listened to your favorite music CD and felt inspired by the talent of the singer? Think. How did these superstars get to the top? Practice, practice and more practice. I read an article about Pavarotti, the opera singer, and he said he practices daily and he still learns something new about his voice each day! When you spend more time honing your skills your confidence will soar because you will know with certainty that you can and will perform when the curtain goes up.

7   Self comparison is key
Compare your progress in life with your previous results. Look to the success of others to learn and not to measure your own success. When you put your focus on the daily improvement of your own skills and abilities you can and will grow very quickly. And your confidence will surge. Confidence without competence is a dangerous combination. Make it easy for yourself and only engage in Self comparison when you are assessing your progress. By doing this you will make it easier to keep at it when the going gets tough and your competence will grow day by day.

I’m back on the morning show with ELVIS ON THE RADIO tomorrow morning kids! It’s always a BLAST, so be sure and tune in if you can!

10:00am EST | 9:00am CST8:00am MST | 7:00am PST
In Vegas: 104.3 NOW FMIn San Fran: 92.7 REV FMPalm Desert: 97.7 KRCK
OR Click this link to hear it on the web: Live Stream

Is it a requirement that you be a good person to  be successful? I suppose not, but that also depends on your definition of what it means to be successful. Most people think of success in only the sense of making  a lot of money. I personally feel that money is a by-product of success, rather than something that defines it.

Success, in a nutshell, is having your act together in all walks of life. It means having a solid personal life in which  you positively impact people around you. It means having professional pursuits  that are rewarding and fulfilling. What ties these two parts of your life more so than anything else? The answer lies in your core values.

Core values  are our internal conscience and reflect both the way we were brought up and  simply how we view our place in the world. Examples of core values would include  honesty, caring about the well-being of others, solid work ethic, and appreciation that your actions reflect on who you are.

It’s important to address a couple of prevailing opinions that affect the discussion of values,  as they relate to success. First, there’s the image of the arrogant but rich  individual who treats those around them terribly. It could be falsely construed  that success is not based upon being a good person by viewing a person like  this.

Just remember, being successful and being rich aren’t necessarily  the same thing. When  the day is done, money is nice and having satisfaction that you are an important  contributor to society are two different things. Instead of asking yourself, “How much money do I have?”, ask instead, “How many lives has my successful lifestyle affected?” You can positively impact the world and still have money because your values are guiding you down the road of life!

Another common misconception is that nice people finish last. I  don’t think that could be further from the truth. First of all, many successful people have great core values and are just great people. Second, just because  you’re a great person doesn’t mean that success is just going to fall into your lap! You still have to work for it and do the right things to make success happen. Great core values may just accelerate the process, once you are heading  down the road towards success.

In conclusion, your core values reflect who you are. Your pursuit of success should build upon your values almost exclusively. Pursuits that stray away from your values are going to meet greater challenges because they go against the grain of who you are as a person. When  you remain true to who you are, you must still strive for success but it will be  more rewarding when you achieve it!

We all go through some kind of conflict in our lives whether it is starting it ourselves or being confronted with it by someone else. Conflict and confrontation are quite similar, but none of them are a good way to come to solutions that are amicable. Usually when confronted with a conflict, it ends in an argument if you don’t know how to discuss things and are not a good communicator.

To get rid of conflict, you have to be a person who loves peace and know when to walk away from certain situations. You have to be a realist and have the fortitude to face the conflict if is faces you.

You also have to be the kind of person who knows when to walk away from conflict. You don’t want to be a confrontational person because you will always be in a conflict. Some people thrive on conflict, but it eats away at the core of who you are and makes you a different person. You don’t want to be involved in such negative behavior.

Surround yourself with positive people and you will gain more confidence and knowledge to be able to realize when there is going to be a conflict and try to avoid it. Be friendly to others because those who are friendly will attract friendly people and not people who thrive on conflict.

Keep yourself busy with positive things and it will keep you away from conflict. If you do encounter conflict in your life, be the first to seek peace. Step up to the plate and start a dialogue with the other person that will allow you to take responsibility of your own action in the situation and voice your opinion and feelings about how you both can move forward.

Try to improve your own personality to reflect positivity and the other person will see it. You attract things in your life by how others perceive you, but more importantly how you perceive yourself. You cannot control how others see you, but you can control how you see yourself.

Writing a letter is a good way of communicating in the time of conflict. On paper, you get to express your thoughts in a more peaceful and thoughtful way than exchanging angry words during a conflict. When you write a letter to the other party, it shows them that you really want to make amends and that you are trying to make it right with them. The ball is now in their court to make the next move.

When there is a conflict, don’t try to solve it right away because emotions might get in the way of all those involved and can make it even worse than it was before. Give it time and let the fuse of anger linger before making any move towards reconciliation or dialogue.

Concentrate on yourself and what you need to change about “you.” If you change and not point the finger on others, then you will be at peace with yourself and what others think won’t affect you as much.